[java] move error message and stack trace annotation

[titusfortner]

One-line summary

Rather than implementing annotation for cause and stack trace in all three test runners, just put it in one place

Description

• adds a stop(Throwable cause) method (which assumes it is a failing test); this is preferred over session.stop(false)
• adds Throwable cause as a required parameter on abort()

Types of Changes

• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)

Deployment Notes

These should highlight any db migrations, feature toggles, etc.