src: disable abseil deadlock detection

[legendecas]

Abseil deadlock detection is reporting false positives in tests in V8.
Abseil mutexes are not used in node core, so disable it for now.

Refs: nodejs/node-v8#301

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Review requested:

• @nodejs/gyp
• @nodejs/startup

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 90.22%. Comparing base (8b2098f) to head (8193761).
Report is 33 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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##             main   #57582      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   90.22%   90.22%   -0.01%     
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  Files         630      630              
  Lines      185045   185055      +10     
  Branches    36243    36247       +4     
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+ Hits       166961   166963       +2     
- Misses      11034    11037       +3     
- Partials     7050     7055       +5     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
src/node.cc	73.55% <100.00%> (+0.03%)	⬆️

... and 36 files with indirect coverage changes

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[targos]

Windows build error:

 abseil.lib(per_thread_sem.obj) : error LNK2019: unresolved external symbol "public: __cdecl absl::synchronization_internal::Win32Waiter::Win32Waiter(void)" (??0Win32Waiter@synchronization_internal@absl@@QEAA@XZ) referenced in function AbslInternalPerThreadSemInit [D:\a\node\node\node_mksnapshot.vcxproj]
abseil.lib(per_thread_sem.obj) : error LNK2019: unresolved external symbol "public: bool __cdecl absl::synchronization_internal::Win32Waiter::Wait(class absl::synchronization_internal::KernelTimeout)" (?Wait@Win32Waiter@synchronization_internal@absl@@QEAA_NVKernelTimeout@23@@Z) referenced in function AbslInternalPerThreadSemWait [D:\a\node\node\node_mksnapshot.vcxproj]
abseil.lib(per_thread_sem.obj) : error LNK2019: unresolved external symbol "public: void __cdecl absl::synchronization_internal::Win32Waiter::Post(void)" (?Post@Win32Waiter@synchronization_internal@absl@@QEAAXXZ) referenced in function AbslInternalPerThreadSemPost [D:\a\node\node\node_mksnapshot.vcxproj]
abseil.lib(per_thread_sem.obj) : error LNK2019: unresolved external symbol "public: void __cdecl absl::synchronization_internal::Win32Waiter::Poke(void)" (?Poke@Win32Waiter@synchronization_internal@absl@@QEAAXXZ) referenced in function "public: static void __cdecl absl::synchronization_internal::PerThreadSem::Tick(struct absl::base_internal::ThreadIdentity *)" (?Tick@PerThreadSem@synchronization_internal@absl@@SAXPEAUThreadIdentity@base_internal@3@@Z) [D:\a\node\node\node_mksnapshot.vcxproj]
out\Release\node_mksnapshot.exe : fatal error LNK1120: 4 unresolved externals [D:\a\node\node\node_mksnapshot.vcxproj]

Looks like we need this change from 3d1fe71#diff-7ec0a6942f03ad6ff24215a31b1b45a378ee21b2cba5f79937281c5f5528d2bf

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CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/65939/

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Landed in 78af51c