Use destroy and recreate plan for roleRef changes

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Handle cannot change roleRef in resource diff function.

Error: github.com/kbst/terraform-provider-kustomize/kustomize.kustomizationResourceDiff: apiVersion: "rbac.authorization.k8s.io/v1", kind: "RoleBinding", namespace: "pstest-observability-config" name: "app-observability-config-read": patch failed 'application/strategic-merge-patch+json': RoleBinding.rbac.authorization.k8s.io "app-observability-config-read" is invalid: roleRef: Invalid value: rbac.RoleRef{APIGroup:"rbac.authorization.k8s.io", Kind:"Role", Name:"app-observability-config-read"}: cannot change roleRef