feat: Configure micoservices queues using env variable

[macbury]

Description

This PR introduces fine-grained control over microservices queues using two new environment variables:

• IMMICH_MICROSERVICES_QUEUES_INCLUDE: Specify which queues to process
• IMMICH_MICROSERVICES_QUEUES_EXCLUDE: Specify which queues to ignore

Why

Many friends that I know run Immich on NAS devices like QNAP and Synology, which typically lack the computing power necessary for resource-intensive tasks such as video encoding and machine learning. This leads them to deploy the machine-learning container on a separate, more powerful machine.
In my personal setup, I run Immich on a QNAP NAS and initially tried moving all microservices to a more powerful homelab server with an AMD Zen9 processor. I mounted the QNAP share via Samba using autofs. While this approach significantly improved video transcoding performance, it introduced issues with external library watching and scanning due to inherent limitations of Samba shares.
The new queue-specific environment variables allow for perfect distribution:

NAS

services:
  immich-server:
    ...
    environment:
      IMMICH_WORKERS_INCLUDE: 'api'
  
  immich-microservices:
    ...
    environment:
      IMMICH_WORKERS_INCLUDE: 'microservices'
+     IMMICH_MICROSERVICES_QUEUES_EXCLUDE: 'videoConversion,thumbnailGeneration'

Server with GPU

services:
  immich-machine-learning:
    ...
  immich-microservices:
    ...
    environment:
      IMMICH_WORKERS_INCLUDE: 'microservices'
+     IMMICH_MICROSERVICES_QUEUES_INCLUDE: 'videoConversion,thumbnailGeneration'

Fixes # (issue)

How Has This Been Tested?

I implemented some unit test. Also I did perform manual test:

I tested this locally by running localy server twice:

# run first process without video transcoding
cd server/
export IMMICH_WORKERS_INCLUDE=microservices
export IMMICH_MICROSERVICES_QUEUES_EXCLUDE='videoConversion,thumbnailGeneration'
npm start

# run second process with video transcoding
cd server/
export IMMICH_WORKERS_INCLUDE=microservices
export IMMICH_MICROSERVICES_QUEUES_INCLUDE='videoConversion,thumbnailGeneration'
npm start

Then I just opened web ui, found video run transcoding tasks for all. I should see video transcoding only in second process. All other tasks still worked as before.

Checklist:

• I have performed a self-review of my own code
• I have made corresponding changes to the documentation if applicable
• I have no unrelated changes in the PR.
• I have confirmed that any new dependencies are strictly necessary.
• I have written tests for new code (if applicable)
• I have followed naming conventions/patterns in the surrounding code
• All code in src/services/ uses repositories implementations for database calls, filesystem operations, etc.
• All code in src/repositories/ is pretty basic/simple and does not have any immich specific logic (that belongs in src/services/)

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