aeron: add v1.43.0, bump JDK, don't write to ~/.gradle

[valgur]

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Conan v1 pipeline ✔️

All green in build 2 (a105a9a50e6d7e5365c4c50b26f8b1ecc23db37f):

• aeron/1.35.1:
  All packages built successfully! (All logs)

• aeron/1.43.0:
  All packages built successfully! (All logs)

• aeron/1.34.0:
  All packages built successfully! (All logs)

• aeron/1.41.4:
  All packages built successfully! (All logs)

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Conan v2 pipeline ✔️

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All green in build 2 (a105a9a50e6d7e5365c4c50b26f8b1ecc23db37f):

• aeron/1.41.4:
  All packages built successfully! (All logs)

• aeron/1.43.0:
  All packages built successfully! (All logs)

• aeron/1.35.1:
  All packages built successfully! (All logs)

• aeron/1.34.0:
  All packages built successfully! (All logs)

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