[Enhancement] (nereids) implement alterRoutineLoadCommand in nereids

[yx-keith]

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Issue Number: #42795

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[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 33623 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit 429ab846ca49985c7f4121a0abc7402d021f8a6f, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	25726	5005	4924	4924
q2	1940	271	172	172
q3	10330	1208	680	680
q4	10218	981	524	524
q5	7505	2344	2292	2292
q6	174	159	134	134
q7	902	719	606	606
q8	9291	1206	1041	1041
q9	6779	5069	5020	5020
q10	6849	2298	1871	1871
q11	503	294	271	271
q12	341	344	209	209
q13	17797	3696	3103	3103
q14	222	227	217	217
q15	578	499	504	499
q16	445	465	395	395
q17	619	867	372	372
q18	7934	7355	7253	7253
q19	1489	933	523	523
q20	323	333	225	225
q21	3684	3165	2335	2335
q22	1061	994	957	957
Total cold run time: 114710 ms
Total hot run time: 33623 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	5058	5033	5019	5019
q2	232	315	216	216
q3	2156	2632	2261	2261
q4	1347	1750	1375	1375
q5	4439	4331	4423	4331
q6	216	171	129	129
q7	1965	1874	1739	1739
q8	2587	2550	2493	2493
q9	7188	7239	7014	7014
q10	3032	3198	2723	2723
q11	575	520	488	488
q12	682	758	603	603
q13	3488	3910	3316	3316
q14	284	300	282	282
q15	546	508	497	497
q16	456	492	439	439
q17	1124	1483	1399	1399
q18	7786	7507	7341	7341
q19	797	804	775	775
q20	2005	2067	1892	1892
q21	4726	4445	4365	4365
q22	1082	1047	993	993
Total cold run time: 51771 ms
Total hot run time: 49690 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 191931 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 429ab846ca49985c7f4121a0abc7402d021f8a6f, data reload: false

query1	1446	1096	1044	1044
query2	6447	1847	1820	1820
query3	11004	4622	4333	4333
query4	56487	25469	23337	23337
query5	4903	472	459	459
query6	319	193	186	186
query7	4875	494	287	287
query8	317	218	204	204
query9	5768	2612	2621	2612
query10	434	340	265	265
query11	15064	14943	14780	14780
query12	154	106	103	103
query13	1038	519	438	438
query14	10179	6277	6193	6193
query15	206	215	172	172
query16	7190	650	481	481
query17	1090	764	598	598
query18	1731	431	323	323
query19	201	200	185	185
query20	149	122	120	120
query21	212	127	110	110
query22	4447	4467	4202	4202
query23	34208	33422	33690	33422
query24	6683	2389	2424	2389
query25	480	476	421	421
query26	686	271	150	150
query27	2246	501	342	342
query28	3042	2139	2150	2139
query29	584	563	450	450
query30	269	225	193	193
query31	852	864	756	756
query32	68	62	62	62
query33	439	365	314	314
query34	764	878	510	510
query35	804	812	761	761
query36	940	982	896	896
query37	134	99	75	75
query38	4268	4379	4193	4193
query39	1485	1472	1462	1462
query40	213	122	106	106
query41	60	61	55	55
query42	127	107	110	107
query43	503	520	481	481
query44	1337	856	879	856
query45	186	183	167	167
query46	866	1022	645	645
query47	1869	1943	1814	1814
query48	385	436	324	324
query49	640	493	393	393
query50	653	689	406	406
query51	4228	4234	4267	4234
query52	113	109	97	97
query53	235	258	187	187
query54	571	569	522	522
query55	83	81	83	81
query56	292	311	305	305
query57	1210	1234	1184	1184
query58	263	257	255	255
query59	2662	2729	2631	2631
query60	343	332	324	324
query61	129	121	140	121
query62	744	754	678	678
query63	234	194	193	193
query64	1762	1040	761	761
query65	4239	4125	4142	4125
query66	685	385	298	298
query67	15966	15673	15565	15565
query68	7083	868	534	534
query69	526	313	321	313
query70	1181	1028	1118	1028
query71	461	320	289	289
query72	5781	4809	4965	4809
query73	1361	679	357	357
query74	9267	9015	8660	8660
query75	3521	3210	2707	2707
query76	3743	1178	777	777
query77	559	393	285	285
query78	10142	10347	9348	9348
query79	1598	781	578	578
query80	648	509	510	509
query81	497	250	225	225
query82	220	122	98	98
query83	251	245	233	233
query84	303	105	93	93
query85	738	351	311	311
query86	349	305	274	274
query87	4363	4510	4283	4283
query88	2830	2300	2264	2264
query89	395	308	279	279
query90	1873	207	209	207
query91	154	134	112	112
query92	76	61	55	55
query93	1489	919	591	591
query94	652	405	312	312
query95	368	294	286	286
query96	490	569	284	284
query97	2689	2823	2666	2666
query98	222	205	205	205
query99	1313	1399	1257	1257
Total cold run time: 297354 ms
Total hot run time: 191931 ms

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 28.8 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit 429ab846ca49985c7f4121a0abc7402d021f8a6f, data reload: false

query1	0.04	0.04	0.03
query2	0.13	0.10	0.12
query3	0.26	0.20	0.19
query4	1.60	0.20	0.20
query5	0.46	0.46	0.45
query6	1.16	0.66	0.66
query7	0.03	0.02	0.02
query8	0.04	0.03	0.03
query9	0.59	0.52	0.52
query10	0.57	0.57	0.57
query11	0.16	0.12	0.11
query12	0.15	0.11	0.11
query13	0.61	0.60	0.60
query14	0.81	0.80	0.79
query15	0.88	0.85	0.88
query16	0.39	0.39	0.37
query17	1.03	1.07	1.06
query18	0.24	0.21	0.21
query19	1.91	1.87	1.82
query20	0.01	0.01	0.01
query21	15.42	0.89	0.54
query22	0.76	1.37	0.71
query23	14.75	1.40	0.65
query24	6.80	1.48	0.29
query25	0.28	0.10	0.10
query26	0.62	0.17	0.15
query27	0.06	0.04	0.04
query28	9.61	0.94	0.43
query29	12.57	4.11	3.48
query30	0.26	0.09	0.06
query31	2.82	0.58	0.38
query32	3.22	0.53	0.48
query33	3.04	3.12	3.11
query34	15.88	5.15	4.45
query35	4.52	4.50	4.45
query36	0.67	0.50	0.48
query37	0.08	0.06	0.06
query38	0.05	0.04	0.03
query39	0.03	0.02	0.02
query40	0.16	0.13	0.13
query41	0.08	0.03	0.02
query42	0.03	0.02	0.02
query43	0.03	0.03	0.02
Total cold run time: 102.81 s
Total hot run time: 28.8 s