Fixing apple builds

[gnunicorn]

just some dependency updates and further touches to make build on iOS and Mac work again.

[github-actions]

Hey there 👋,
and thanks for the contribution. But it seems like you forgot to

• 📰 Add a markdown file in .changes/ explaining what changed

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 46.76%. Comparing base (060ef6c) to head (6c9cd86).

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  Files         948      948           
  Lines       57845    57845           
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+ Hits        27049    27050    +1     
+ Misses      30796    30795    -1     

Flag	Coverage Δ
integration-test	58.02% <ø> (+<0.01%)	⬆️
unittest	39.29% <ø> (ø)

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