[don't merge] #31802 with additional patches #1819

Job	Run time
macOS 14 native, arm64, fuzz	12m 33s
test each commit	32m 18s
macOS 14 native, arm64, no depends, sqlite only, gui	23m 13s
Windows native, VS 2022	1h 13m 54s
ASan + LSan + UBSan + integer, no depends, USDT	46m 41s
Linux->Windows cross, no tests	30m 53s
Windows native, fuzz, VS 2022	33m 19s
Windows, test cross-built	16m 56s
	4h 29m 47s

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