Add support for macos 14 node 16

[bizob2828]

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GHA updated the default mac-os14 to 14.4 which ships with python 3.12.2. This version not longer has support for a python library called disutils. This is being used by node-gyp which is being used by pre-buildify. They rely on whatever is stock node-gyp from the given node version. Which in node 16 is node-gyp 9. There is a knonw issue for this and the fix is to upgrade to node-gyp 10

Feature Description

Update node-native-metrics to use a version of node-gyp that works on node 16 and python 3.12.2

[workato-integration]

https://new-relic.atlassian.net/browse/NR-255823