feat(NODE-4721): add aws-sdk as optional dependency (#3446)

Author: durran

.evergreen/config.in.yml

@@ -351,7 +351,7 @@ functions:
         working_dir: "src"
         script: |
           ${PREPARE_SHELL}
-          NODE_LTS_NAME=${NODE_LTS_NAME} MSVS_VERSION=${MSVS_VERSION} \
+          NODE_LTS_NAME=${NODE_LTS_NAME} MSVS_VERSION=${MSVS_VERSION} NPM_OPTIONS=${NPM_OPTIONS}\
             bash ${PROJECT_DIRECTORY}/.evergreen/install-dependencies.sh
     - command: expansions.update
       params: