docs(dev): add some hard-won pytest tips and tricks (#10224)

Author: gforsyth

docs/contribute/02_workflow.qmd

@@ -46,6 +46,29 @@ To run the tests for a specific backend (e.g. sqlite):
 pytest -m sqlite
 ```
 
+#### Running the test suite efficiently when making large changes to a backend
+
+If you are adding a new backend, or dealing with a major refactor, some `pytest`
+tricks can help speed you along through finding and fixing various test
+failures.
+
+Run the tests for your backend tests in parallel
+
+```sh
+pytest -m duckdb -n auto --dist loadgroup --snapshot-update
+```
+
+Then run only the failed tests using `stepwise` and don't randomize the test
+order:
+
+```sh
+pytest -m duckdb --randomly-dont-reorganize --lf --sw
+```
+
+`pytest` will stop after a test failure, then you can fix the failing test, then
+re-run the same `stepwise` command and it will pick up where it left off.
+
+
 ### Setting up non-trivial backends
 
 ::: {.callout-note}

docs/contribute/04_maintainers_guide.qmd

@@ -11,16 +11,17 @@ Dependency updates are automated using [Mend Renovate](https://www.mend.io/renov
 
 ### poetry
 
-Occasionally you may need to lock [`poetry`](https://python-poetry.org) dependencies. Edit `pyproject.toml` as needed, then run:
+Occasionally you may need to lock [`poetry`](https://python-poetry.org)
+dependencies. Edit `pyproject.toml` as needed, then run:
 
 ```sh
-poetry lock --no-update
-poetry export --extras all --with dev --with test --with docs --without-hashes --no-ansi > requirements-dev.txt
+just check-poetry
 ```
 
-The second step updates `requirements-dev.txt` for developers using `pip`.
+This will update the lockfile and also update `requirements-dev.txt` for
+developers using `pip`.
 
-## Adding examples
+## Adding entries to `ibis.examples`
 
 If you're not a maintainer, please open an issue asking us to add your example.