Merge pull request AvaloniaUI#10153 from AvaloniaUI/fixes/macos-windowstate-crash

macOS: Sync actual window state after window show, and fix integration tests on macOS 13.1

Author: grokys

native/Avalonia.Native/src/OSX/WindowImpl.mm

@@ -65,7 +65,7 @@
         _isModal = isDialog;
 
         WindowBaseImpl::Show(activate, isDialog);
-
+        GetWindowState(&_actualWindowState);
         HideOrShowTrafficLights();
 
         return SetWindowState(_lastWindowState);